If you only knew...

My nervous former self,

You’ve just arrived at Rhodes; there are a total of five people from your high school who are here, and you’re all set to create a new identity. Grahamstown is yours for the taking, and take it you just might. In your quest to forge a new identity, many avenues of self expression are available to you. With all this in mind, you find yourself surrounded by an abundance of stalls at societies evening.

At this point you have locked your keys and student card in your room, which will happen four times throughout the coming term. Don’t worry, this won’t hinder your registration for societies. Take time to linger at different tables, don’t let pre-conceived ideas influence which societies you will or won’t join. Have an idea of what interests you, but be open to exploring other opportunities.

Being a journalism student, a good place to start would be one of the newspapers. Religious or nationality groups will help you create an instant community and support structure. There are loads of fun and community upliftment societies available, everything from Amnesty to ROAR – an animal focused society. You’ve decided that you want to join one society with your boyfriend, so you grab his hand and head on towards the ballroom dancing table, despite your absolute lack of natural rhythm. Firstly let me tell you this won’t change. However, you will have a great deal of fun.

Now that you have chosen seventeen societies which sound amazing to you, settle for three or four for which you will actually register. After registering, the next step is very important: Go to the first meeting! This will ensure that you stay on track with what is happening. By now you are prepared for the great year which lies ahead.

Good luck! First year awaits you.

Love Me